Thursday, February 15, 2018

Happiness, freedom and choices

So, I've been off Facebook since shortly after I posted 2018 and more. I originally removed my Twitter, but they delete your profile after 30 days, so I restored it. I've since tweeted a handful of times. I haven't put it back on my phone, but I'll probably wander over occasionally, but mostly want it to post links when I blog here or at Weer All Crazee Now.

I've wasted too much time on Quora to pretend that I don't need to keep myself focus and not drift into playing on the Internet. I also joined Instagram, but haven't posted anything. I'm considering how I might use it in some way that I'll be glad I joined. It isn't bad for the quality of looking at pretty things for a few minutes when I have a break at work or something and clicking my approval, without nearly the same constant barrage of opinion as Facebook and Twitter.

I like opinion, but getting so much of it, so often without the kinds of build-up of normal conversation or a specific choice, like reading newspapers or blogs. I'm fairly certain it's partly a processing issue of my brain.

All I know for sure is that I'm way happier without that, despite missing the input of some of the people there as a regular part of my life.

I'd like to say I've used that time as productively as I'd prefer, but I haven't. At least physically. There's a shit ton going on in my head that I need to lay out.

There's a combination of factors, beyond my own tendency toward lethargy. Kim lost her job, so I've been working more, and we've both been making some other changes surrounding that. Also, most frustratingly, living where we do is difficult all around for the things I want to do. That's true on nearly every level. Being in the suburbs is trash. Being in the Northwest means depressing weather that makes it hard to stay active.

That is not to say that there aren't reasons we're in both places. Whatever alternatives we consider present their own obstacles, and we are constantly debating the pros and cons of different places, city or country, Washington, Oregon or Texas. As life goes.

This all is starting to sound like complaining, which isn't my intention. I think things are really moving in a positive direction overall, and I need to make sure I'm keeping that momentum going and taking proper advantage of it.

Funny thing, when I started this blog, in whatever form, fifteen years ago, my life was in a really bad place, much worse than I was willing to admit, so it was almost essential that it not be personal. I needed it as a space to process and celebrate the good things in my life, which were mostly pop culture, media and art things, as you can easily see. With a much different life, I see that the blog, to the extent it has hobbled along, has changed without my intending it to.

I don't know exactly what that will look like as I have that realization and stop pretending that when I write here, it's a personal blog by a guy who likes pop culture stuff more than he should and not a pop culture blog that I allow personal stuff onto occasionally.

I know that I'll be happier if I never pretend to write a proper review of anything again. That always feels like I got assigned an essay question in high school. I'll probably continue, under the guise of whatever I'm doing, to occasionally barf up a bunch of disconnected ideas, like I've been doing with the Star Wars movies, when the thoughts build up. I'd prefer to barf up thoughts on more general subjects. I'm always closer to finding those posts acceptable as something, although I'm never sure what.

I have a couple of things in mind to barf on about, we'll see what happens.

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